Why are friends and loved ones so quick to use the word selfish when it comes to you pursuing your goals? Don't fall into that guilt trap any longer. If you don't have self love, you have no love at all. Continue to do things for others, but never let anyone make you feel inferior or guilty because your first priority is self maintenance and self care.
I don't know who the artist of this lovely painting is but if anyone finds out, hit me up and I'll give credit!